Damn Horny Leaders!

SA has been talking lately, speaking of this thing called a moral compass.

This is Hi-lighting the probability that South Africans may not know the difference between right and wrong.

 

I have seen this in the kind of leaders we elect into power. Not just politics but people (mostly men), we call leaders. These are Men who influence the men in our lives. These are men who set the benchmark.

 

I think that the problem we South Africans face is, that we do not realise that it takes a certain kind of personality/ character, to be a leader. I get the sense that in SA, all you have to be is charismatic and male and the people will hail you as a leader.

This is a grave mistake we are making. We as South African have to sit down and discuss Who and What makes a person a leader.

 

We keep producing mediocre results because we keep hailing the wrong people as leaders.

We keep giving these platforms of influence and control to any man…….these positions need to be saved for True leaders.

 

One of the most important characteristics of being a leader is having DISCIPLINE. For me, this is too damn obvious. A good leader is disciplined.

So why is it that these men in powerful positions seem to have sex addictions and problems with objectifying women?

Is a good leader, one who sleeps around?

 

I too occupy a position where I am exposed to MANY who want to bed me. Does this mean that as a youth leader…..to prove myself, I should be sleeping around and abusing my access to the D?

Weak characters when placed in this situation will get excited and drop their pants. But in all honesty, we all know that Power lies in not being so easily ‘taken.’

 

So now what is happening with our CEOs lately? Zwelinzima Vavi is certainly NOT the only head of organisation that is sleeping with young girls (and possibly older ones too).

Are these men REALLY leaders if they occupy that space for punani?

 

There are men who sleep around, and there are women who sleep around. Is greatness not about self preservation and having control over your body. We are all having the human experience…is it REALLY healthy and normal to have multiple sex partners? So we hail people who sleep around as leaders. Wow.

Thing is, not EVERYBODY who is placed in a powerful position resorts to sleeping around…so it genuinely worries me that we South Africans have not called this issue to order.

 

It always goes as far as the tabloids and gossip, we don’t stop and look at ourselves and put forward people who are True Leaders.

 

For me, true leaders should have characteristics that make them extraordinary, discipline, fearlessness, respect, honour, dignity, courage, integrity, compassion in addition to charisma.

We can’t take just one characteristic in isolation.

Leaders are specific people with a certain combination of qualities.

We keep making people leaders because we think they are nice.

It is wasting our time and resources.

 

These older men that haven’t gotten punani out of their system should be excused from leadership positions….they are not taking us forward.

 

We need leaders which don’t think with their sexual organs. Kahle Nje.

 

 

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2 thoughts on “Damn Horny Leaders!

  1. Great read Ntsiki.I do however wuld like to question how much information you have gathered to generalise inthis manner.I am a men myself ,bt such a generalisation fail to recollect how these men who are alduters grew up.Single headed house holds where the man was a dominator and the bread winner.Where bak in the day their fathersrs would do ths to their mothers and so on.Now as a young leader I feel u shuld consider all these factors,becoz before u r a leader you r human 1st.We need to fight for our kids nt to inherit leaders like ths that’s all.the only way to do ths is to show morality in our own households and unity in our. House holds

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